God is faithful, by whom ye were called unto the fellowship of his Son Jesus Christ our Lord.
1 Corinthians 1:9 (KJV)
Everything ultimately comes down to our relationship with Jesus. We were called into fellowship with Jesus, and the more we fellowship with Him, the stronger our trust and confidence in Him becomes. The more we take our focus off of ourselves and place it on Jesus, the more receptive and available are we to seeing God’s goodness and unmerited favor in our lives.